Monday, August 28, 2017

Math for Girls Counts

Before they were great, great grandmothers, they stood 
in lines for singular equality, for one scale blind 
to gender, creed or color. But, their right 

to vote was delayed until 1920 – 144 years after
propertied White men, 51 years after Black men,
as if women were mere household amenities
used as conveniences.

The vote hoped to move the line closer 
to a public voice in fiscal and sexual values,  
but it took sixteen more years to change 
birth control info from obscene 

to legal mail (hidden in plain brown envelopes)
to head-of-the-household husbands,
a married man the only 
Good Housekeeping Seal of Approval. 

Connecticut’s 1965 defeat freed the pill 
only for the sanctified wedded. I remember 
unmarried, pregnant girls, 
shamed and blamed for bad choices, 
while the boys were just being boys. 

The 1982 ERA defeat subtracted sixty years 
of female rights. One hundred years since suffrage,
fifteen states still have not ratified ERA,
now a dusty museum piece. 

Defeat meant I had no credit, no bank account, 
no property without my husband’s name, addressed as 
Mrs. John Doe, my first name unimportant,
a nondescript dustpan beneath spousal steps.

Reduced fraction of 1973’s Roe vs. Wade, reproductive rights 
are not in the corporate equation that controls
choice as newly-deemed religious bodies, 
a catch-22 where working women have zero say. 

Despite the centuries-old male monopoly, women have 
done the math – equal means equal, not less than.


© Patsy AsunciĆ³n, 2017

"The Awakening" by Henry Mayer, 1915
Restoration copyright by Adam Cuerden
from Wikimedia Commons 












Monday, August 14, 2017

The Warrior (or After Surgery)

Reluctantly, I force myself
to stand before the mirror,
stripped of all artifice,
naked except for earrings.

Reminded of a warrior after many battles,
I note the scar stretching 
from sternum to armpit,
fading now but marking
where once there was a breast.

I feel unbalanced, bereft,
but then I see the head,
eyes watchful,
able to enjoy color and form;
ears, somewhat large,
but able to hear bird-song and blues,
Beethoven and Brahms;
mouth, lopsided and quizzical,
but able to converse 
and even sing a bit.

The top of the skull
is covered by wispy, graying hair.
Within it is a brain
with thoughts and emotions, 
and most of all
the ability to enjoy,
to appreciate, and to love.

So I honor the gift of my Maker,
who made me in Her image,
and the gift of time
to enjoy Her creation a little longer.


© Peg Latham,  1993

Mrs. Prince, after surgical removal of a breast
Watercolor of a woman operated on for breast cancer, 1841
from Wikimedia Commons
via Wellcome Images